<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Balance on ~/signaldrift</title><link>https://signaldrift.pages.dev/tags/balance/</link><description>Recent content in Balance on ~/signaldrift</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 23:28:19 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://signaldrift.pages.dev/tags/balance/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>friends and us</title><link>https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/friends-and-us/</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 23:28:08 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/friends-and-us/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;no matter how much you get along with your family, it won’t be the same as hanging out with a friend. And unfortunately even if we saw each other more, I’ll never be a friend to you like a girl would, and you’ll feel a disconnect in that regard&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If I were you, the strategy is to figure out who at work/who do you know that lives in Toronto that you’d like to hang out with more, maybe even routinely. My friends have ups and downs but until now we’ve been glued together somehow. I think after moving I’ll need to do the hard work of finding more friends&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>