https://signaldrift.pages.dev/tags/family/Recent content in Family on ~/signaldriftHugoen-usWed, 05 Nov 2025 18:43:43 +0000https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/generational-divide/Wed, 05 Nov 2025 18:43:35 +0000https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/generational-divide/<p>there’s no point even being angry at your mom, it’s unlikely her way of thinking will ever change. Same goes for each of our parents, same goes for us as well tbh</p> <p>people mostly are who they are. if someone hurts you in a very deep way for a long span of time and they don’t understand why its caused you grief, it’s unlikely they’re ever gonna come around and have the “lightbulb moment” when they realize how their words and actions have affected you over decades. it’s just never gonna happen</p>https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/culture-and-control/Sun, 10 Aug 2025 21:15:31 +0000https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/culture-and-control/<p>I guess no plans change as a result of a random conversation, but I’ve been feeling pretty jittery about this today and I had pretty much calmed down about it and now I’m just anxious again</p> <p>sometimes I wonder if there’s some big sin i committed in a past life that I gotta make up for in this one. I literally mind my own business, I never poke or push anyone to cause any trouble, my whole personality is built around not bothering anyone. And yet I’m repeatedly thrown into situations where I’m cooked no matter what I do</p>