https://signaldrift.pages.dev/tags/relationships/Recent content in Relationships on ~/signaldriftHugoen-usTue, 04 Feb 2025 20:20:06 +0000https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/learning-to-plan/Tue, 04 Feb 2025 19:47:39 +0000https://signaldrift.pages.dev/posts/learning-to-plan/<p>I went from not giving/creating gifts, receiving them, or doing any sort of surprise stuff for anyone for 23 years, to being in a position where I gotta figure out creative, new gifts or doing things as a surprise, planning stuff, multiple times a year. I’m simply not used to it yet, and thus it comes with a degree of stress</p> <p>I find it easier to do when I don’t care about the outcome; but it’s still really hard (especially if it’s important). For example last year’s valentine’s gift was extremely difficult to make happen until the final step of assembling it, and even then it took many hours a day for a couple days in a row. I didn’t even finish the project, I gave you something that was 98% done</p>